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Zeytinburnu Aile Kad\u0131n Destekleme ve Engelliler Merkezi<\/strong><\/span>’nin düzenledi\u011fi Çar\u015famba Seminerleri<\/strong><\/span>‘nin y\u0131l sonu kapan\u0131\u015f\u0131 Zeytinburnu Kültür ve Sanat Merkezi<\/strong><\/span>’nde yap\u0131ld\u0131. Çocuk Geli\u015fim Uzman\u0131 ve Yazar<\/span> Hatice Kübra Tongar<\/span><\/strong>’\u0131n konuk oldu\u011fu seminerin konusu ise; “Ba\u011f\u0131rmayan Anneler”<\/strong><\/span>di. Dinleyici annelere bir ça\u011fr\u0131da bulunan Tongar; “Çocuklar\u0131n sahibi de\u011filiz, emanetçisiyiz”<\/strong><\/span> mesaj\u0131n\u0131 verdi. Hatice Kübra Tongar seminer boyunca, çocuk geli\u015fimi konusunda \u0130slam dininin hangi ö\u011fütleri verdi\u011fi, bilimsel yöntemlerin neler oldu\u011fu, çocuklara ba\u011f\u0131rmadan ki\u015filiklerinin geli\u015fmesinde nelerin etkili oldu\u011fu ve ebeveynlere ne gibi görevlerin dü\u015ftü\u011füne dair sorular\u0131 da cevaplad\u0131.<\/p>\n

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MAALESEF DUYGUSAL \u015e\u0130DDET HER \u0130K\u0130 A\u0130LEDEN B\u0130R\u0130NDE VAR”<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Pedagoji bilimi alan\u0131nda, “Ba\u011f\u0131rmayan Anneler” ba\u015fta olmak üzere çok say\u0131da kitab\u0131n yazar\u0131 olan Hatice Kübra Tongar, önemsenmeyen duygusal \u015fiddetin ilerleyen dönemlerde olu\u015fturaca\u011f\u0131 kötü sonuçlar\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131 çizdi. Her iki aileden birisinde duygusal \u015fiddetin oldu\u011funu belirten Tongar, “Bu konu neden önemli? Çünkü yap\u0131lan ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar gösteriyor ki, Türkiye’de duygusal \u015fiddet her iki aileden birisinde ya\u015fan\u0131yor. Duygusal \u015fiddet, duygusal istismar, fiziksel ve cinsel \u015fiddetin yan\u0131nda hafif bir \u015fey gibi gözüküyor. Ama gelece\u011fe olan etkilerine bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z zaman bütün suçlu profillerinin geçmi\u015flerinde bir \u015fekilde ailelerinde o huzursuzluk, alay edilme, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lanma, bize disiplin ve e\u011fitime geleni adamdan saymama halleri var. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla ‘ba\u011f\u0131rmayan anneler’ derken asl\u0131nda bundan bahsediyoruz. Duygusal istismar ve \u015fiddetin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131, insanlar\u0131n öfkelerini de ifade ederken insanca ileti\u015fime geçtikleri, yeti\u015fkin dünyas\u0131ndaki sayg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zla, nezaketimizle, çocuklar\u0131m\u0131zla ileti\u015fim kurdu\u011fumuz bir sistemden bahsediyoruz.” dedi.<\/p>\n

“B\u0130R ANNE DE\u011e\u0130\u015e\u0130RSE TÜM ÜLKE DE\u011e\u0130\u015e\u0130R”<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Çocuk Geli\u015fim Uzman\u0131 ve Yazar Hatice Kübra Tongar, Türkiye’nin çocuk geli\u015fimi alan\u0131ndaki kat etti\u011fi yolu da de\u011ferlendirdi. Türkiye’nin bu konuda daha iyi noktaya gelece\u011fini ifade eden Tongar, “Ben gelece\u011fe dair çok ümitliyim. S\u0131rf kendi çocuklu\u011fumuzu hat\u0131rlam\u0131\u015f olsak, fiziksel \u015fiddetin çok iyi bir \u015feymi\u015f gibi konu\u015fuldu\u011fu dönemlere \u015fahit oluruz. Biz art\u0131k b\u0131rak\u0131n fiziksel \u015fiddeti, duygusal \u015fiddeti yapmayal\u0131m noktas\u0131na geldik, ülke olarak. Çok daha iyi günlere de gelece\u011fimize inan\u0131yorum. Her zaman söyledi\u011fim bir \u015fey var: Bir anne de\u011fi\u015firse, tüm ülke de\u011fi\u015febilir.” diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n

“ÇOCUKLARIN SAH\u0130B\u0130 DE\u011e\u0130L, EMANETÇ\u0130S\u0130Y\u0130Z”<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Tongar son olarak annelere tavsiyelerde bulundu. Çocuk sahibi olmak teriminin çocu\u011fun sahibi olundu\u011fu anlam\u0131na gelmedi\u011fine dikkat çeken Hatice Kübra Tongar konu\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 \u015föyle sürdürdü; “Annelere tavsiyem, dilimize yer etmi\u015f ‘Çocuk sahibi olmak’ diye bir kavram var. Kendimizi bazen çocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sahibi zannedebiliyoruz. Öyle olunca da rahatl\u0131kla istedi\u011fimiz gibi davranabilece\u011fimizi dü\u015fünebiliyoruz. Çocuklar\u0131n sahibi de\u011filiz, emanetçisiyiz. Onlar bize emanet. Çocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n as\u0131l sahibi günü gelecek ve diyecek ki ‘Sizlere ben evlat emanet ettim, ne yapt\u0131n\u0131z?’. Her annenin o soruya rahatl\u0131kla verebilecek bir cevab\u0131 olmal\u0131. Çocuklar\u0131m\u0131za k\u0131zmadan, bask\u0131 uygulamadan önce lütfen bu söylediklerimizi hat\u0131rlayal\u0131m.”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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